Mindfulness for Health
By Gunnel Tesfa, RSW
Gunnel Tesfa is a Registered Social Worker with more than 25 years in the field. Gunnel is a compassionate, understanding and efficient therapist who continues to find new ways of helping her clients.
Mindfulness is a way of looking at our experiences that can change the intensity of our negative emotions (for example hurt, anxiety, anger), and make them less incapacitating. At the same time, mindfulness can increase our confidence and sense of control over our life.
A simple definition of mindfulness would be:
“Paying close attention to our physical, mental, and emotional experiences as they are unfolding moment to moment, while using a non-judgmental, non-reactive and accepting attitude toward them.”
The practice of mindfulness has a long tradition in eastern spirituality. Western psychology has recognized how useful mindfulness practice can be to address a variety of problems, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, difficulties with relationships, etc. A therapist who uses mindfulness in their work with clients can teach you the core principles of mindfulness, and will help you as you expand and perfect your practice.
Mindfulness is also often used by therapists in conjunction with other techniques, such as CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) to create a very potent tool for lasting change. One of the many things I find personally so useful in mindfulness practice is that it teaches us how to slow down our reaction to events.
When we take this extra time to react, it gives us more control over how to react. We start realizing that often, our reactions, including emotional reactions such as fear, panic, helplessness, anger, etc., are conditioned, learned ways of reacting, which seem to arise almost instinctively. We don’t usually feel that our emotional reactions to events are a matter of choice.
Lightening our load
Mindfulness gives us a space in which we can examine the event, re-evaluate it, and maybe react differently, in ways that create less suffering for us and those around us.
Mindfulness can also lighten the load we carry with ourselves; the load of regrets or painful memories from the past, and worries and anxieties about the future. Mindfulness can help us focus on the here and now – the only time we actually can control and influence! Mindfulness practice can teach us how to bring our best selves into each moment as it unfolds, to create a more peaceful and content state of mind.